Deal with love! [spouses]
The GREATEST of all men, the most honourable of ALL prophet's character:
Aisha رضي الله عنها once had a dispute with the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم.
He said, 'Okay Aisha, I want to get someone to reconcile between us.' She agreed.
He said, 'Umar?'
She said, 'No'.
He said, 'Ali?'
She replied 'No.'
He mentioned so and so but she refused. Then he صلى الله عليه وسلم said, 'your father?'
Aisha said, 'Yes, my father is okay!'
He, the prophet of Allah brought her father and the father (Abu Bakr) came to fix the problem. Aisha was sitting on one side, the Prophet on that side and Abu Bakr رضي الله عنه was listening.
The Prophet asked Aisha, 'Do you want to start first or would you like me to start first?' She said, 'You start first but don't tell nothing but the truth!' You know what Abu Bakr did? He jumped on her i.e since when will the Prophet not tell the truth?!
She ran very quickly to hide...you know where she ran to hide? Behind the prophet's back!
The matter ended right there.
Every once in a while when her father would pass by what did the Prophet tell Aisha? 'Do you remember O Aisha?' 'What O Messenger of Allah?' 'I saved you from that man, do you remember I saved you from that man one time?'
What do you think about that? This is the prophet of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم!
The greatest and most honourable man Allah created to walk the face of the Earth! He صلى الله عليه وسلم was the busiest of men bearing the responsibility of taking mankind out from darkness to light, despite all this one finds his character, his manners, his behaviour towards all people the most magnificent. His character was of such that any individual who spoke to him would feel as if they were the most beloved to him.
Surah Al-Ahzab, Verse 21:
لَّقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ لِّمَن كَانَ يَرْجُو اللَّهَ وَالْيَوْمَ الْآخِرَ وَذَكَرَ اللَّهَ كَثِيرًا
- Shaykh Musa Jibril حفظه الله